tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9649129.post112503871779718021..comments2024-02-24T01:11:05.090-08:00Comments on Diary of a Latex Lady: The Psychology of Total Enclosure -- Part the First?Latex Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15218238153038374229noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9649129.post-1126602356122562782005-09-13T02:05:00.000-07:002005-09-13T02:05:00.000-07:00rubberjohn,Thank you for the comment. Your descrip...rubberjohn,<BR/>Thank you for the comment. Your description of the freedom of mind obtained by relinquishing freedom of body is very apt. I feel much the same way.<BR/><BR/>And there is no doubt that the choice to allow another person to block your access to traditional release does, indeed, increase the explosive power of non-traditional methods. <BR/><BR/>There are many times when I am not permitted to achieve such release in the 'usual' manner. However, what happens is a much greater and more relaxing flush of sensation and pleasure, often unaccompanied by any overtly 'sexual' feelings at all. being encasd in the latex for this amplifies the sensation and, I believe, the psychological catharsis as well.<BR/><BR/>For me, these mindgasms (for lack of a better term) are much better than any traditional release through intercourse, manipulation, or mastrubation and are made all the more intense by the subsumption of my identity, my ego, and my body into the latex encasement. <BR/><BR/>I literally feel like I am falling into the soft warm depths of a womb when this happens. <BR/><BR/>The fact that it is triggered through the ministrations of the man I have surrendered myself to makes it all the sweeter. <BR/><BR/>Regards<BR/>LadyLatex Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15218238153038374229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9649129.post-1125149420764800282005-08-27T06:30:00.000-07:002005-08-27T06:30:00.000-07:00LadyI am confident that the creative minds of the ...Lady<BR/><BR/>I am confident that the creative minds of the alternative world will create more exciting devices and techniques for exploration.<BR/><BR/> I always found it exciting that shutting down stimuli creates and opens up different sensations. The vac bed and inflatables make perfect sense to me in achieving that. Not to ignore the sheer mind blowing pleasure of it all! <BR/><BR/>I find the concept of blurring oneself very interesting. Do you ever fear that the loss of self would be permanent? If you know you can come back to the I, do you ever really lose the self? Or does the loss of the I require the concept of no return? I sure dont have any answers to this but was curious as to your thoughts.<BR/><BR/><BR/> Regards<BR/><BR/>Dr BlackAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9649129.post-1125128095153190622005-08-27T00:34:00.000-07:002005-08-27T00:34:00.000-07:00DrblackThank you for the kind words.I agree wholeh...Drblack<BR/>Thank you for the kind words.<BR/><BR/>I agree wholeheartedly with your assessment of the way TE has slowed me down. I have always been introspective; after all, what good is an unexamined life?<BR/><BR/>But this experience has encouraged me to take a very zen-like attitude toward experiences, rituals, and day to day life. Now, even making a ham sandwich is a carefully planned and precisely executed activity. It is how I imagine living in a zero g environment must be.<BR/><BR/>Being in the vac bed with my head in an inflatable hood, totaly removed form sensations of the outside world, I tend to drift into a dreamlike state. Sometimes I feel (and this is my goal) that my identity is disolving away and I am losing conciousness without losing sensation. That is I am losing the thing I call I.<BR/><BR/>we do not have a lot of plans in terms of goals or milestones. we have largely achieved eveything we originally set out to. But the experience remains so enjoyable and attractive now, that I can't imagine quitting. And we are still learning things. <BR/><BR/>As the creative minds in the alternative lifestyle community come up with more interesting devices and toys, I am sure we will find a way to keep exploring our interests. But beyond that, the peace of mind and meditative states I seem to live in now are very, very alluring.<BR/><BR/>regards<BR/>LadyLatex Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15218238153038374229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9649129.post-1125114679855053072005-08-26T20:51:00.000-07:002005-08-26T20:51:00.000-07:00Dear Latex Lady:I was very interested to read abou...Dear Latex Lady:<BR/><BR/>I was very interested to read about the contemplative nature of your total enclosure. You are the first person that has described the beauty and sensuality of the rubber dressing ritual. I love the rubber dressing ritual since it is a doorway from myself to my rubberself- two very different entities. <BR/><BR/>In addition, it appears that TE in rubber has allowed you to slow down sufficiently to reach a more contemplative almost psychedelic state of mind. You aptly describe the beauty and transcendance nature of your TR experience to date. They again remind me of the Lilly isolation tank expereiences. I greatly admire you, sir and maid in embarking on this total and complete journy. I am curious whether you have identifed goals or eventposts to keep the TE procss moving forward. That is , how much of this journry is planned out ahead and how much is situational? In any event, I wish you much love and insight as u, Sir and Maid continue ur wonderful latex journey. Has anyone considered making a movie of this experience?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9649129.post-1125095605609099542005-08-26T15:33:00.000-07:002005-08-26T15:33:00.000-07:00Hi Latexlady,don´t worry about me trying out your ...Hi Latexlady,<BR/><BR/>don´t worry about me trying out your underwater endeavours :) As a freediver I for myself am quite used to the feeling of being out of air and the way the body reacts to that - but I would never put someone inexperienced in that situation.<BR/><BR/>Also it was interesting to read about your feelings while being shaved on your head - encased in rubber. This sounds like a wonderful ritual. It does not look like you would be willing to give that up, would you ?<BR/><BR/>best wishes<BR/>gummitaucherAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9649129.post-1125090543905754062005-08-26T14:09:00.000-07:002005-08-26T14:09:00.000-07:00Well, on our vacation we actually did go out and p...Well, on our vacation we actually did go out and play a round of miniature golf...I amd Ok in a burqa with a putter. We've never been big fans of the full game of golf...I don't see why I couldn't learn to drive and chip in rubber, though.<BR/><BR/>Horseback riding is completely possible. Many women in the mid east ride side saddle in abayas or burqas. <BR/><BR/>With respect to sailing, I had quite an enjoyable time on the deck of the launch enjoying the breeze with my flowing rubber robes billowing out behind me. Running around trimming sail on a sailboat MIGHT be a bit much, but then, I am more inclined to enjoy the ride than to work as crew :) I would suggest you try sailing sometime in a sleek latex catsuit instead of a neoprene wetsuit. Surely you have tried this already?<BR/><BR/>We have a cat. He is wonderfully aloof and at the same time loving and personable. He has never complained about my wearing latex. However, I don't see why I could not walk dogs in a burqa. Women walk dogs all the time in long coats and dresses...and contrary to what a lot of people think, my vision under the burqa is quite good.<BR/><BR/>I care for our cat (or maid does) on a regular basis. being rubbered makes no difference...of course if i choose, I can don a gas mask before cleaning his pan. :)<BR/><BR/>And as far as attending community meetings...why not? Unless paranoid council members barred me, I doubt it would be an issue. They might require me to uncover to a security guard, but I accomodate that at the airport all the time.<BR/><BR/>So I don't know of anything I couldn't do if I put my mind to it short of highly strenuous exercise that would overheat me.<BR/><BR/>For the things I LIKE to do, rubber enclosure has offered me virtually no issues and no hindrances. Some minor challenges, perhaps, but not what I would call serious obstacles.<BR/><BR/>regards<BR/>LadyLatex Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15218238153038374229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9649129.post-1125071489741643942005-08-26T08:51:00.000-07:002005-08-26T08:51:00.000-07:00DarkMy parents are concerned that my choice of lif...Dark<BR/>My parents are concerned that my choice of lifestyle may limit, hinder, or endanger me. They are not fetishistic themselves (to my knowledge0 and just find the concept of me enclosing myself in this manner too weird for words.<BR/><BR/>That said, they have adapted and ae communicative with me and with all of us. They have met maid and i suppose they have some idea of what a rubber clad girl of 26 is likely to be doing in our household. <BR/><BR/>But, no, we do not discuss BDSM with them. It WAS interesting watching a kinky episode of CSI with them while I was completely covered in latex sitting on the floor at Sir's feet. They are quite bright and I am certain they figured much of it out, but like most families, we do not discuss our sex lives across generations.<BR/><BR/>For all I know, mom dresses up as the mistress of pain every night :)<BR/><BR/>I know that my mother mentioned that they visited us to her friends at church, but yes, I doubt that she went into too much detail. However, she MIGHT have done with a close friend she has.<BR/><BR/>We keep coming back to this question of whether my lifestyle is limiting. It is not. I have found nothing I cannot do in public or private that I care to do. <BR/><BR/>I cannot drive in the burqa...but I don't want to.<BR/><BR/>I can't engage in traditional penetrative sex...but I don't want to<BR/><BR/>And I am neither isolated nor bored. Indeed, one of my personal fetishes is to BE an object for a long time (perhaps forever). I have been able to achieve a closer degree of this in the last 7 months than in the preceeding 30 years. But with respect to other interactions or things I can or cannot do, we have found nothing of significance. <BR/><BR/>We have been out to dinner with 'vanilla' friends and with Sir's business partners. We have visited relatives and family. We go to theater and cinema and museums. we aren't interested in sports, but if we were i am certain we could attend these too.<BR/><BR/>Can I work? I do not know? I suspect that here in NORCAL, I could, as Julia suggested, go back to teaching even in a burqa. But I have no desire to.<BR/><BR/>So I must say to you that you are wrong. My lifestyle does not isolate me any more than I wish it to. I feel protected by my layers of ruber, not isolated.<BR/><BR/>I suppose my question for you, Dark, is, "What do you think I should be doing that I cannot? What, in your mind, are my limitations?"<BR/><BR/>Regardes<BR/>LadyLatex Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15218238153038374229noreply@blogger.com