Sunday, September 21, 2014

Changes, Changes

Well, dear readers, my life has drastically changed.

Sir has been stricken with illness and paralysis. We are coming to terms with an emerging normal which will certainly not involve as much of our preferred lifestyle and material and dress.

Early this month Sir suddenly had a backache which evolved, over the course of a few hours, into paralysis below the waist. This is from a tumor pressing on his spine.

I have spent much of the following time thinking about things and what to do, how to cope, how to progress.

One thing I believe we will have to do is to see how much of what I do can become entrepreneurial, how can I contribute to the financial stability of our life. I have not had to do much of that, and I retired well, but this will impact Sir for monthsor years until he can adjust and I must think ahead and to some degree for him.

Any ideas from my reader base would be appreciated.

I love my lifestyle of submission. Being pro active about our latex - centric BDSM life is fun and fascinating. I have never thought of it in a financial sense...now I wonder if there is a serious market for rubber-centered erotic writing...I could do that.

I still want to bring the joy of rubber bdsm to my readers. I want to educate, inspire, explore, reassure, and encourage readers. I believe I may transform a lot of my writing time to this, to publishable books and stories.

Look for more, but not right away. I am busy working into a new normal.

regards
Lady

38 comments:

Anonymous said...

This sounds quite bad. I wish you the best.

Anonymous said...

We'll pray for you both. I had a similar experience with my son. Surgery was able to resolve the issue, thank goodness. Do you have a good neurosurgeon? If you'd like a couple of good recommendations you can get in touch with me via comments. Just let me know how to reach you directly, and I'll shoot over my contact info.

Joe

Deirdre Young said...

Dearest Lady,

I was shocked to hear about your Sir’s sudden illness.

Lelo and I will keep him in our thoughts, and all I can say is that he is lucky to have someone like you to support him in this dark time.

Our love to both of you.

Deirdre and lelo

PS : Please don’t hesitate to call if there is anything we can do to help.

Anonymous said...

Good luck to you and Sir, I wish you both the best. I would say your story of Katherine Duane and the Latex Society bodes well for your abilities as a writer.

Unknown said...

Wow, I'm terribly sorry to hear that. I wish you the best possible outcome in this difficult time. Your writing is fine, easily better than most of the online erotica people do pay for from pinkflamingo.com and other sites.

nyenor said...

I am also very sorry to hear your bad news. I hope Sir makes at least a partial recovery and that things work out OK in the end. I guess this news means that Katherine's story will be on the 'back-burner' for a while.

Anonymous said...

What an awful development in what appeared to be a very happy life. My very best wishes to you both, dear Lady. I hope that all works out well for you and Sir.

Anonymous said...

So sorry to hear of Sir's illness. We wish him the best. You have mentioned previously that you have an advanced degree. Are you considering now putting that to use?

alphaxanon said...

I've seen caregivers first hand and I have the "privilege" of having caregiver duties for my father one day a week.

It will be a rough journey.

Best wishes.

Anonymous said...

Things will turn out fine, I am sure:) I wish your husband fast recovery!

BV

Anonymous said...

All I can say is, with all my sympathy, but it will be difficult. Love each other, more than you have ever loved before, and maybe some cute latex nurse outfits with proper masks may lift the mood.

Anonymous said...

Dearest LatexLady

I am saddened by this post. I hope that there is a way around his tumor and that in a few months you will be able to put it behind you. We are lucky that we live in an era when medicine can help us.

Your family is in my thoughts.

S.O.

Anonymous said...

Very sorry to hear - hope the surgeons etc. can make him as good as new in time.

2029 said...

Very sorry to hear your news.
Very interested to hear your ideas of capitalising on your style of dressing. You may have noticed that over the years I have built up a library of over 2000 self portrait photographs, and my face is veiled or otherwise covered in all of them. A publisher is interested enough to suggest we make a book of them. Respond, and I will keep you informed re what happens.
SC (Flickr 2029)

S.Emerald said...

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that he will be able to get better.

Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear about Sir's health issues and would like to send u both my best wishes.
Sealed

Grumpy_old_fetishist said...

I hope that your love and support can carry Sir through this difficult time. Be as loving and subservient as ever, make every caring thing you now have to do for him an act of submission. Stay strong, both of you

Anonymous said...

Dear Latex Lady,

I was so sorry to hear about Sir's illness. I'm sure your amazingly strong and special relationship will weather this latest storm. Your writing is powerful and beautiful, and if you completed Katherine Duane's Latex Society story as an e-book and made it available for purchase as a pdf, I'm sure that other of your fans as well as myself would be prepared to pay to see how it concludes. Perhaps including photos or illustrations of the amazing outfits you describe would be a way of adding value to the text we've already read. (Whether Sir would permit you to be photographed, fully covered of course, for your work is another question). Have you contacted publishers of other fetish erotica to see if they would be interested in going into hard copy print? With love and admiration as always. A female rubberist fan.

Anonymous said...

My dearest best wishes to you both. Atomage02

gummitaucher said...

Best wishes to you !

I sure love your writing - I´m sure it would be a success if you would publish some more of it.

gummitaucher

Anonymous said...

Hello LatexLady

Is there any progress in Sirs condition? And how are you coping yourself?

Aramis
Denmark

Anonymous said...

I hope that your husband and you will go through this, and that you will end a better person by discovering that most people can't sit in latex all day long doing nothing but have to work for a living.

Anonymous said...

Hope he gets well soon.

Anonymous said...

Still thinking/praying of/for you both and wondering how things are going - any good news?

Anonymous said...

Oh my gosh my dear Lady,

I trust that Sir is recovering. Hoping and praying that he's been on the mend.

xoxo

Mayfleur_35, from Canada.

naodigo said...

hope everything is going for the best!

Anonymous said...

It has been a year. I hope you have found something: an improvement in his condition, a way to capitalize on your stories, or something else.

Please, though, communicate with us and tell us about the situation.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to hear of Sir's condition and hope it has improved. Love to the family, and if you need help, do please reach out. I think your lifestyle committment could be parlayed into any number of outlets to help you financially. All my best to you and your Sir.

~vrutchka~

Case crab said...

Veiled Wife,

Are you still following this blog? Do you have a new E-mail address?

Atar Axia said...

Sad news...

I wish you and Sir the best.

You have been an uplifting inspiration to a great many people.


Carpe Rubber Diem!
..ataraxia..

03/31/2016

Anonymous said...

How are things going with Sir? are you ever coming back?

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Anonymous said...

I am so sorry, lady.

braveheart said...

please come back. you are missed.

Anonymous said...

Hello Lady I hope this message finds you well. I am a big fan of your story "Entering Rubber society" I hope one day you are able to finish it. I wish you the best

tonehjul said...

I have followed you for some time and cherished your thoughts. It has been inspirational and made my thoughts soar. I am sorry for your loved one and for what you are going through. I hope you will rediscover a way to express yourself. -Here or elsewere.
If I can help, please let me know.

Best wishes.

Daniel Marie said...

Dear latex lady, I hope that the situation is getting better, anyway please accept my best wishes for you and Sir. It has been souch a "r├ęconfort" to read your diary thaht I feel your obliged.

Mark Farr said...

Latex Lady: how have you been? I hope you have been so jolly well. Sam